Latest Article from Debenham Parish Magazine
Hi everyone,
Although the various forms of dementia can present a wide range of symptoms, the most common has to do with memory and especially short- term memory. It is incredibly frustrating and difficult when your husband, wife, father, mother, partner is unable to remember from one moment to the next and suddenly slips into repeating the same question or statement again and again or immediately forgetting what they were told just a minute ago. Yet very often when reminded of things in their past they can recall amazing detail. I remember many years ago, we organised an event at Ipswich Football Club. Several of the “greats” including Jim Magilton and John Wark gave up their time to chat with our guests about the old days. I saw Jim kneeling beside a little lady with a team match photo – she could not only name every player but even recounted swearing at the referee! And also when a gentleman with severe symptoms in a reclined wheelchair who could no longer speak suddenly recognised John Wark from right across the room. This is why reminiscing is such a powerful support activity for both carers and those they care for. It brings us together, and diverts from the short term worries and frustrations, and reminds us happier times. You might like to take a look at https://canvas-story.bbcrewind.co.uk/memoriesanddementia/.
We are very fortunate in the financial support we receive from individuals in our community. Recently, I was delighted with the contents of our collecting boxes from the shops, businesses and other events – over £500 in total – thank you all for slipping your change into their slots. Also I wish to thank the family and friends of Fred and Sybil Rowe for the very generous donations made in their memory.
Finally, I couldn’t finish without paying tribute to Gracie Webster who died this week. She was such a lovely person and friend to all and bright as a button. I cannot forget her laughing so much at Fit Club that she almost fell off her chair.
With all my best wishes, Lynden Jackson
Visit to The Hut, Felixstowe 2024
Sunday afternoon at the seaside ,sunshine, fish and chips, strawberries and ice cream, beverages galore! What more could you ask for ?
Oh, yes, a rickshaw ride along the prom with Ian of Suffolk Rickshaws ,and new this year ,sharing songs together from the songbook ,lead by our very own ,Karen ,who also arranged our flowers.
Debenham Project lunch club and friends travelled to Felixstowe on Sunday 18th August , and we had a fabulous day!
A very big thank you to everyone who volunteered their time and company, everyone who joined us and enjoyed the day and to everyone who has kindly made a donation to the Debenham Project .
Joy Walton, Food and Friends Lunch Club, Debenham Project
